Its a wise saying that when you are in anger, you lose your wisdom. Another saying which really deeply impressed me is " Never take any decision in anger" What actually anger does with you.
When you are angry,
The first thing which takes you on the loss path is you are emotional on that time and not really understanding the situation. You have to see all the pros and coins before taking any final decision. Suppose you are annoyed to a person whom you care about, now if you call every time and fight and insult him/her. what would be the result?? Of course you lose the battle. YOU DIDN'T PLANNED ANYTHING. You are not in a position to understand what is going on there, why someone is doing so and is he/she doing intentionally or unintentionally. Don't you think it would be better to let you anger cooled down. Take a drive, visit a friend ( do whatever you think can make you feel better) and when you are relax, now you are in position to do some thing which is in your favor.
The first thing which takes you on the loss path is you are emotional on that time and not really understanding the situation. You have to see all the pros and coins before taking any final decision. Suppose you are annoyed to a person whom you care about, now if you call every time and fight and insult him/her. what would be the result?? Of course you lose the battle. YOU DIDN'T PLANNED ANYTHING. You are not in a position to understand what is going on there, why someone is doing so and is he/she doing intentionally or unintentionally. Don't you think it would be better to let you anger cooled down. Take a drive, visit a friend ( do whatever you think can make you feel better) and when you are relax, now you are in position to do some thing which is in your favor.
The things you do in anger always favor your enemies:
There are many negative comments are in our mind which we kept secret in our hearts. When you are angry, It might possible that whatever you think about someone, you express your views publicly. ( There may be someone who use your words against you ). You're emotional on that time and its possible that you don't mean it but once you said something publicly. Now its your views ( there is no space for emotions).
Worse idea to start discussion on calls, texts and emails:
Anger is linked to emotions and I think this heading is for ladies especial. They start discussing on calls, send hurt text and emails. which just wilder the distance between them. I saw many of my friends that when they feel ignore or hurt. They keep calling, send many texts and emails about how I taken you and see what you have rewarded me etc.We all are in different places, different thoughts and situations when you start a serious discussion from a distance. There are plenty of chances that your words are taken wrong or he/she may start ignoring you more. Always try to not to use this idea.better to ask them to meet you.
Stop conversation with someone:
When we fight with someone or having any issue with them. We stop talking with them and make a third person a spokesman on our behalf. Now it become impossible that your complain could be heard or understand as the third person may tell you actual facts or may he create story by his own. Everyone has their own interests and its the best time to achieve it when you are no longer have contact with someone.
Isn't it better to keep yourself calm and understand things. get the clear picture of the situation. After it whatever you do or decide. you're sure that you are not going to regret it!
There are many negative comments are in our mind which we kept secret in our hearts. When you are angry, It might possible that whatever you think about someone, you express your views publicly. ( There may be someone who use your words against you ). You're emotional on that time and its possible that you don't mean it but once you said something publicly. Now its your views ( there is no space for emotions).
Worse idea to start discussion on calls, texts and emails:
Anger is linked to emotions and I think this heading is for ladies especial. They start discussing on calls, send hurt text and emails. which just wilder the distance between them. I saw many of my friends that when they feel ignore or hurt. They keep calling, send many texts and emails about how I taken you and see what you have rewarded me etc.We all are in different places, different thoughts and situations when you start a serious discussion from a distance. There are plenty of chances that your words are taken wrong or he/she may start ignoring you more. Always try to not to use this idea.better to ask them to meet you.
Stop conversation with someone:
When we fight with someone or having any issue with them. We stop talking with them and make a third person a spokesman on our behalf. Now it become impossible that your complain could be heard or understand as the third person may tell you actual facts or may he create story by his own. Everyone has their own interests and its the best time to achieve it when you are no longer have contact with someone.
Isn't it better to keep yourself calm and understand things. get the clear picture of the situation. After it whatever you do or decide. you're sure that you are not going to regret it!
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