when an angel friend plans to replace you

This post is rather than just a post but also a strange experience which like me anyone of you ( or many among you) has experienced. I definitely miss the time of 80's when we don't have any social networks and mobile applications which we could use to strengthen our friendships but they were!

No doubt social networks, mobile and its applications make conversations convenient but I feel like it said "excess of everything is bad' similar thing happen with over socializing. When I open any social network, what I found there? I can talk anyone around the world, billions of people are available to talk, chat and  for friendship.

Its not bad at all to make friends but the problem which I feel that when you have billions of available people and you have added 1000+ people in your friends list. The good people surely ignored.

Than people are treated like commodities,you are easily removed or replaced by the other. It hurts!  

Here I am warning all of my readers to keep it in mind that friendship is a noble relation and not everyone could understand how others' feel when you suddenly replace or remove a person from your friendship list or from your life.

Here are some key clues to guess when someone is thinking to replace you.

• suddenly your friend has a very tough schedule and its not possible for him to contact you in 24 hours. He gave you late replies and give the same excuse that due to busy routine he can't manage but innerly he is confused or hesitating to replace you. He is taking some time to make himself comfortable to do so. ( here I am discussing on-line friends mostly so If your friend who meet you often may be doing so for any other reason but mostly you will find this excuse for sure).
• getting social with other friends and visiting new places and spending much time with other friends. (link it with the above one as they said its a tough schedule :) but it is just for you).He keep himself away from you and making it his habit.
• The severe reaction which is may be the last one is abuse and insult. After each session he may say its because of disturb routine or worried by some issues and with time their excuse ratio reduce and just insult comes in your share.
• no reply text,calls and that person is completely absent from your life.

  Its hard experience you know all it or don't. I really don't know its good to know or not as if you are walking with a person who is losing grip of your hand and you knew it from begining till he finally leave, its worse. But knowing help you to satisfy your mind and soul what other has done to you. What actually happened in your relationship or friendship.

hoping we use social networks, mobile and its apps to strengthen our relations rather than playing with each others feelings and loyalty. 

xoxo 

over goodness! is the sign of good soul or wickness

Miss Marry entered in her boss's office and every time her boss says that I am satisfied that I have never done anything wrong with anyone. Well! that was not true. Miss Marry saw and she is the witness of her bad nature, how she misbehaved with others, how she abused her staff before terminate them. She was surprised that how she could repeat a statement which is not true.

when I was student, I read a short stories ( obviously I don't remember its tittle but!) It was about a family who spoke so nicely and claimed again and again that they could never harm or hurt anyone but at the end they suggested the robber to rob their neighbor's house.

 In case of Marry's boss, she satisfy herself with  her own statements as she knew how others' consider her.

It could be her voice of her soul that she is not satisfied and knew her deeds and try to convince others but actually! she is trying to satisfy herself.

The other reason could be such people are gossip makers or talkative. They think that they can convince others just on the basis of conversation. It is said that if something said again and again, it stuck in others' minds and somehow they start believing it. Most of them may not accept but they become comfortable with the statement.This kind of people are comparatively wicked than Miss Marry's boss.

Some people pretend to maintain their status in the society and say nice words so people just know their good things and words and don't focus on their flaws and bad habits.

There is another category of people who use nice dealing as a office language and its a profit making tool for them. whatever they say, It doesn't matter much because mostly they don't mean to it.

good dealing is no doubt a good skill but their nature and their body language could tell you their complete biography.