you are sincere,true and loving,Is its not working???

If you love someone and you are quite pure and honest but you found that other person is ignoring or not responding you the same as you deserve. Here are the few reasons which could be behind it.

There is a difference in our natures. Even if male say they like a girl who is so down to earth but innerly they like a girl who has a self respect and don't be so chasing personality. What you can do is to talk nicely every time you meet and be a pleasant in nature. It always attract people toward you. Everyone like such personality. You must have patience and acceptance all the time and under any kind of circumstances.

I want to share here a saying of friend,

"you only love someone,only when you love yourself first"

Mostly good dealing put a very positive impact on other. Try to put things together natural like you were searching a book in library, waiting for someone in cafe' or eating a meal there. (even if its not true :) ) 

Now if despites of  all of your efforts if still its not working than there might be few reason behind it:

• few men are not interesting in having a serious relationship, their focus might be on their career or on their financial crisis. They are interesting in having a temporary relationship and don't like a girl who is giving a serious relationship signal.

• They have a recent breakup and really not in mood to go into another drill.As much you are chasing them as much they are likely to run.

• Men mostly attract towards looks before loyal feelings and purity. Its quite reasonable as well. As a lady you must be well dressed and well maintained. They could respect you for your loyalty but unless you don't care yourself and have an appealing personality. It quite possible that they are not mad about you. It doesn't mean you have a sexual appeal. Decent look always effort more. occasionally you can try a little glamorous look but in routine you must have a decent look.

• Is he already interesting in someone than it can be possible that your efforts and love don't work on him as his interest is in someone else. Thats something which is quite hard to cover and more chances are that you have to change your mind instantly as if you try to replace someone whom has been in his life already. you not only lose him but he may dislike or hate you for throwing away him from someone he love. 

• Some has a traditional mind and they believe that the person who marry or have a relation with him could adjust with the family and they are less interested in relationships as they consider their parents approval and comfort more than any other thing.
• Regional, Religious and cultural differences ( which I had less considered but with time got to know they also play an important role before someone think about you..

Remember one thing, when you show your feelings and emotions to someone and they are true. true feelings always have a magical impact on other's heart. Its not possible that he knew about it and in his 24hrs or 24/7 (in his week) he would never thought about you. He did, and any of the above reason could be the hurdle in your way. As you are independent in selecting someone, he is also free to choose you or not. You must have at least such courage that you express your feelings and than wait.. let him decide!