DO SOCIAL MEDIA HELP US TO TURN CLOSE OR INCREASE THE GAP!

WE'RE THE PEOPLE WHO SAW THE DEVELOPMENT OF INTERNET IN DECADE OR MORE THAN THE DECADE. I PERSONAL FEEL ITS COMFORT WHEN IT STARTED AVAILABLE ON ECONOMICAL RATES. NOW I CAN CONTACT ANYONE AROUND THE WORLD ON THE CAST OF ALMOST NOTHING. HOW MUCH IT BECOME EASY FOR ME. BUTTTT! DO IT HELP ME AND YOU TO TURN CLOSER TO EACH OTHER OR INCREASED THE GAP WILDER!

There was a time when I have to buy a calling card or net card which has a limited time and we have to consume it with caution. We have to arrange our preferences, whom to call first, which mail is compulsory to send today.I remember when my aunt's family was moving to England and I went to market on that eve and wondering what I want to say, I wanted to talk to each person of than family and what a excitement and warmness I had on that time. Unless now when we call, its free as we all prefer to call through  net. here are the number of negative impacts of social media on our lives along with its convenience.

• LACK OF ATTENTION: 

     We may try to contact each other more often but others irritate with it. Sometimes they take it               as unnecessary calls and texts. You may face lack of attention and no responses.

• Depression: 

 People show themselves so happy even more than their actual life.Viewing all the time their updates, make you feel like you are the only one who is suffering or may be comparatively far away than your friends. It disturb you and decrease your efficiency.

• DOUBTS AND SPY ON EACH OTHER:

We all must admit that we spy on our close one's profile,who is commenting on their posts. Over spying and doubting destroy your relation. There you may find most of the time those people who he/she never talk about but on social media they are talking too much. When you mention it to him/her, sometimes they don't bother much to stop which make you feel so low.

• OVER SOCIAL:

Some cases are quite worse, Its more in teenagers and bachelors who almost daily upload their picture and counting their likes and comments. They are more interested in quantity rather than quality. Those who are close to them, surely feel ignorance as such people are quite interested in their praise and have less time to communicate.  

Mostly it happens that when you comment on your friends post, his/her friend whom you don't know respond you, like your comment and start chat publicly.Such people not only disturb your friend but also you may not go smooth with such unknown friends of friend.

• FAKE PEOPLE AND FAKE ACCOUNTS:

Many people have fake accounts or bad intentions. If you have or you are a teenager than you must know that. and its really risky to contact people you may not know. kidnappings, reaps, robberies are planned on such accounts.

• WASTAGE OF TIME: 

We become so much addicted to net that we're online all the time. Mostly we are doing nothing, scrolling and scrolling. We don't do any thing productive in all that time. May be we are waiting for someone to on-line 

If you are suffering from all above or some of them then you're using it more than required. Excess of everything is bad and we must use it as much that our and our family & close relations don't disturb or weak. Only than Social media don't harm you otherwise you don't know what your close ones thinking, your children, wife and friends may need you but you are busy on net. Its better to talk first to those who are sitting beside you. physically present but you may feel you are alone in cafe' or in room. Set your preferences first and keep your life healthy. :)