have you ever felt that in your office circle how many people want to replace you. how you can identify such people and what is the best way to cope with them?
its quite easy. ever one have their own six sense to feel such weird things. well lets list some of the clues you may consider weird.
they have good relations with your open opponents:
you may see them in cafe or in any other place together and suddenly when you arrive, their confidence reduced. they don't know how to manage the situation now in front of you. the reason behind is they were involved against you and now when you are there. they are not comfortable to deal you so special which they do in other's absence.
they try to make you stressed:
they search your weak points and then continuously hit on the same area where they think you will be freaked and emotionally ruin everything around you.
they are extra ordinary sweet towards you:
its quite strange but mostly the people repeat the same lines again and again to make you believe. its so often . they repeat it so much and deep inside, they are trying to convince themselves that they perform well. mostly people do those things which they mostly said and promised. when someone repeat a same line without much difference sometimes its not with purity but just because they used to communicate in such a way.
they give you wrong advises:
when it comes to decision making. they will give you wrong advises. like hide things from boss. you should react aggressively about this issue.
they don't follow your instructions:
when its about team work. they give their less contribution. their interest is so dim. they repeat the same mistakes and don't consider you as your leader or boss. they try to make brotherly relations so that they can easily challenge your leadership and can get the courage to disobey you.
what you should do?
its quite easy. ever one have their own six sense to feel such weird things. well lets list some of the clues you may consider weird.
they have good relations with your open opponents:
you may see them in cafe or in any other place together and suddenly when you arrive, their confidence reduced. they don't know how to manage the situation now in front of you. the reason behind is they were involved against you and now when you are there. they are not comfortable to deal you so special which they do in other's absence.
they try to make you stressed:
they search your weak points and then continuously hit on the same area where they think you will be freaked and emotionally ruin everything around you.
they are extra ordinary sweet towards you:
its quite strange but mostly the people repeat the same lines again and again to make you believe. its so often . they repeat it so much and deep inside, they are trying to convince themselves that they perform well. mostly people do those things which they mostly said and promised. when someone repeat a same line without much difference sometimes its not with purity but just because they used to communicate in such a way.
they give you wrong advises:
when it comes to decision making. they will give you wrong advises. like hide things from boss. you should react aggressively about this issue.
they don't follow your instructions:
when its about team work. they give their less contribution. their interest is so dim. they repeat the same mistakes and don't consider you as your leader or boss. they try to make brotherly relations so that they can easily challenge your leadership and can get the courage to disobey you.
what you should do?
- reduce your frankness level if you think they are using it as a tool.:
- it doesn't mean that you become insulting or aggressive. you are not doing gossip. not sharing your personal data with them
- clear them that at work place you are boss not brother etc:
- take all the record written from them
- don't much bother about their gossip or plans against you just keep working hard on your tasks.
- Remain calm these are normal things happen in work places though it just show the low stream of others and nothing about you.
Keep shining like always :)
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